Everyone was in such a situation when, after accidentally said the phrase, a girl started a scandal. Or she just offended and didn’t talk to you. This article will be useful to all men, regardless of whether they have a strong relationship or not. So, there are ten key points that shouldn’t be said to a lady so as not to hurt her feelings.
1. “That girl is so hot!”
Even if you often make an involuntary comparison of your soulmate with someone in your thoughts (for example, ladies from eastern European dating sites), never tell her about it. Otherwise, something may accidentally fly in you, or a big scandal will be arranged, after which you will be reminded about this for a long time. After you compare her, the trigger will work in literally five minutes, and you will no longer recognize your woman.
2. “You are a bad mother”
It’s worth remembering this rule forever, even if you and your soulmate have no children yet. Yes, of course, it doesn’t include those women who drink or abandon their babies. It’s not for us to judge them. But you can’t say it to a good mother. For her children, she will always be the best. Even if you have any thoughts that your soulmate is doing something wrong for the child, try to tell her as softly and tactfully as possible. Moreover, all this will definitely affect the child.
3. “You’re not my ideal/not quite my type”
Perhaps your ideal is Monica Belucci or Eva Green. But it is better if your woman doesn’t know this. If you love her, she must be the best for you in the world. And if she’s not the best and not attractive enough, a logical question arises: what are you doing next to her? Why not find a better girlfriend?
4. “You need too much attention”
Yes, attention is important for women (and the more, the better). Therefore, having heard such a phrase from you, your girlfriend may very much doubt whether it is worth continuing your relationship. Attention is one of the main signs of love. Don’t forget it.
5. “All women are the same”
These are words that give out frustration and anger. If you think that there are no good women, then why are you in a relationship? When communicating with a woman you like, never speak badly about women.
6. “My ex did it better”
No matter how nice the ex-girlfriend is, never talk about her. Even if you want to say something bad, you are likely to encounter female solidarity and remain guilty. If you don’t want to sleep on the couch, cook yourself, or even go to your parents, then this is definitely one of the things you should avoid!
7. “Take it easy!”
Do you know that this one word can detonate a time bomb? Remember this, and never use it to calm a woman. Just give her time to cool.
8. “Maybe you should go to the gym?”
When a woman says that she is fat, it is only because she wants to hear the opposite and not advice to play sports. Don’t believe? Try it yourself and create a chain reaction from endless complaints. In addition, you are quite capable of motivating a girlfriend. For example, start running yourself.
9. “So, what is next?”
In any dispute, a woman needs support, even if it seems to you that she is simply trying to defend her opinion. Saying this phrase, you not only put yourself in a vulnerable position of the loser (which doesn’t benefit even the strongest relationships) but also acknowledge your own inability to resolve the issue under discussion.
10. “I’m not sure”
It shouldn’t be so. A woman is looking for a basis in a man, on which to rely at any moment. Try to develop your own opinion on any issue: disappointing a girl with uncertainty is the last thing to do to strengthen relations.
